Real friends, Fake friends, and Romance

Real friends, Fake friends, and Romance(Tammy) My grandma once told me their are two types of people in this world. The once that are want a be and others that don't betray their friends. Their are many types of people with different personalities. I met a lot of nice people and people who take advantage of you and aren't true friends. The majority of people want to be popular and cool therefor they hang out with cooler people and they forget about their geeky and smart friends. My opinion is that education is the first priority for people from elementary school till collage. You can't be distracted by your boyfriend, girlfriend, and friends. If you get distracted by all of this how in the world can you become successful in the future. Your life revolves around education just like a house will fall apart without bricks.
When eighth grade started it was going alright I had good grades and lots of friends. All of a sudden everyone stopped hanging out with me. My friends didn't talk to me as much as they did before, my crush didn't like me anymore as a friend. It's like they all made a plan to stop hanging out with me. The scary part is I don't even know why they stopped hanging out with me. My best friend since second grade made my crush against me because she couldn't stand the fact that he liked me better then her. She chose a boy over her best friend. She just wanted to become cool, popular, and I'm not that type of girl. I was to busy and involved in my studies. Almost every day my crush would make fun of me. He used to tell me a lot of mean stuff and I don't know why I deserved this behavior when we're neighbors and live in the same block. He send me text messages which said "everyone is avoiding you. No one likes you they just hang out with you because they feel pity for you."
I said "like who"
"I'm avoiding you and lots of other people but I don't want to say their names."
Later on he said "sorry for being mean."
When someone tells you these really mean things that everyone is avoiding you and people only hang out with me because they feel bad. It's really hard to forget this because its hurtful.
I always felt that my little crew of friends didn't want to hang out with me and used me. Then I asked a really good friend of mine what's going on. She in boxed my friend Lisa on Facebook and said
"what's going on why don't you guys like Sara, and I know that your better then that to insult her."
Lisa said "no one likes her, basically everyone's using her. She thinks that we isolate her but she isolates herself from us. You cant talk to her about anything only studying not boys or drama. She's always following us and whenever we joke she doesn't get it. She needs a social life and to have a normal childhood, her mind is like a forty year old women. She said some really cruel stuff to me. I could be fun and social whenever I like to. Whenever she makes fun of me she calls these stuff jokes. Jokes is laughing about something not someone. It's called bullying and it's very hurtful towards millions of kids around the world including myself.
A true friend will never talk behind your back, flirt with your crush, and tell everyone who I like. I realized if she acts like this its really mean and therefor we shouldn't be friends. What goes around comes around. If your mean to someone today tomorrow people will be mean to you. When you really like a guy and they don't have the same feelings for you its really . You always have dreams or daydreams about him/her but you feel they'll never come true. No matter how much you try to change yourself to be more suitable for him its really hard. When he looks at other girls with those sparkling eyes its very hard for me to see that. The truth is that deep down in the bottom of your heart you know that a strong relationship is when both the female and the male like each other. Everyone who feels that way should tell their crush if there a girl or a boy. It's part of life to get rejected and accepted. Everyone deserves a chance to be happy and find true friends. Everything in life is a experience for the future and we have to learn from it so we don't repeat the same mistake.


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